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 Hi everyone, hope everyone is happy and healthy. After a short break I am here with yet another blog. This blog is quite special because it took a lot of time for self realization and understanding of the concept. During my teenage many of my buddies started terming themselves as an attitude person, according to them attitude is all about being rude and arrogant. Later did I realize that attitude has nothing to do with arrogance. As I have mentioned earlier the word attitude starting with the letter a has no correlation with the word arrogance starting with the same letter a, Instead it correlating with the word approach starting with the letter a. I know this is dragging but just to get clarified i started approaching it from vocabulary section. It is clear that attitude is all about how we approach things, to make it brief it is all about how we behave, how we approach, how we handle situations. But nowadays people are thinking attitude is all about being superior and they act a...

 Hi all! First of  all seasonal greetings to all my fellas, hope the gig for celebration as started. After going through all sorts of challenges and depressing situations throughout the year, I don't know from where do I (we - if you could relate with me) get the ray of hope taking me into a dense forest filled with belief , that from the start of next year everything is going to be okay and my wishes will fall in my hand, after all that is life. Do you agree with this? if yes please do leave that in the comments section. Without dragging lemme take you through my last blog of this year (22nd blog completing in 2022). Sometimes I feel endings are great because it always comes with a new beginning. With lots and lots of joy, hope and belief let's approach new year with new plans. To approach this new year with lots of energy, we need a break. Yes you read it right. Sometimes it is more important to plan your free time as it is for your important works and goals. The best exampl...

 Hi Everybody, hope everyone is safe and happy. This weekend I am here with an yet amazing topic which I was supposed to discuss long back, I didn't because I was a complete failure in following that habit. So what I thought was to try practicing it and talk (sorry to write) about it later. Before getting into this topic let me give you a perfect example what will happen if we set a boundary line? Basically the game of cricket celebrated by many while watching this game one thing that made sense to me was only by setting boundary lines we can score huge runs. Likewise, setting boundary lines to succeed is very important in our lives too. Consider this scenario, can you study late night spending hours and hours to study for an exam after writing it? No you cant, because you know that it is of no use. There is a deadline beyond which, whatever the efforts are made it is not going to yield results. Likewise I feel that setting boundaries in life is also important. Right from waking up...

Hey folks! Hope everyone is safe and happy. If you are really glad about your current situation please don't read beyond this because when I started writing this blog, even I was unsure what sort of mood will this context would set. I personally feel this topic is quite sensitive. From the start I wanted to share this but couldn't. I think this is the right time to talk about this, my personal motto while writing any kind of blog is to set the person in the same mood that I write(usually a pleasant one) but right now I am perplexed and have no idea how our moods will end up. I personally feel that thinking about a person or situation from the past is useless and waste of time but though we are reluctant we can't get over it. It might be a relationship, friendship or your favorite member with no tag line. No matter what phase of life we are in, we have to deal with people and be  committed to let go of them, that doesn't mean you have to push people out of your life. You...

 Hey fellas! hope you all had a great weekend. Finally December has arrived, a month that poses immense  joy, I used to wonder how an ending could be fun and joyful. Today more or less my topic is gonna correlate with the topic of being joyful. When i was a kid i used to complain for every single thing and feel unsatisfied even i had everything i wished for, but later did i realized that being joyful doesn't mean you have to own materialistic possessions. In this blog i  am gonna sum up the random thoughts that struck my mind last week. I am kinda human who used to overthink a lot for the things that never happened in my life, but when i realized that art of being alive is all about living. The art of living means enjoying yourself adapting the environment you have been surrounded within. Finally everything drops down to a process called "EXPERIENCE". Life sums up with the decisions and choices you make.  Nowadays we have been deviated and misguided by the mindset th...

 Hey Guys, hope you are all doing good! With the hope that you will be great after reading this insight of mine that i am gonna share with you in this blog. Before getting into the topic, Lemme ask you a question when was the last time you spent a good quality time with yourself ? that doesn't mean going on  a solo trip or solo date, it can just be spending without anything and anyone around you. This blog is going to deal with the context of how well are we aware of ourselves. Lemme ask you another question, Imagine the situation when you were desperately longing for a person to console you or pacify and you started thinking that as a problem without dealing with the actual problem? many of us would have done this, to be very honest I used to do that (but definitely not nowadays :) ). Grateful for the universe that I overcame that toxic habit. First and foremost believe you are the one who is solely responsible for how you are dealing with situations, irrespective of the natu...

Right from childhood to adulthood, men as always been framed to fit into a structure where they are advised from not to cry, not to show themselves weak, to lift all the heavy weights, till being capable of earning pennies to their family. I feel they are always pushed into a unrecognized and not much appreciated zone.    For most of the girls whatever they have cooked for the first time they would have got appreciated, but have you ever heard a boy being appreciated for the first penny earned? May be one in hundred or thousands would have got appreciated. Men have always been trained not to show their sad faces and always be stubborn in nature. He is always tend to be the face of the family even if he doesn't like that. We have heard many stories like father or brother going to work in abroad just to raise the financial status of their families. They have always been pressured to be the providers of the family. Dowry is always been a burden for women's and their family. We al...

Since so many days i was just thinking that i am not influenced by some social media influencers, just because i don't like their attitude and content, but forgot that commenting and discussing about them with my groups, and again watching their content is also an addiction! Have you ever hated some social media content creators for their cringe contents and still visit their profiles? This happened for me many a time, if your answer is yes don't worry i am here with a solution. The only solution is to ask yourself "whatever the cringe content maybe, they are minding their own business, am I?" this question was a slipper shot for myself and from that day(a week ago) i stopped surfing other's accounts. Apart from this, there is a serious issue whether we are financially stable or not some people just want to replicate themselves with the attire they see in online. This is a very serious issue, i am not complaining that we shouldn't buy those items which so call...

Hey folks, wishing y'all a very happy and safe DIWALI! Starting this blog with the hope that this blog elucidates our perspective towards ourselves about what we really need and what we really want. I know its been a long time since I have posted my last blog. When I was thinking why am I not consistent, suddenly I discovered that I was going through a identity crisis. So I thought of writing a blog about this which most of us are going through and some may have undergone earlier. I remember during my childhood I was  so adamant to get things done and used to make sure that I get what I wanted right from my academics to my extra curriculum, and when it comes to toys I used to get some of it but not all still I was happy and satisfied but now even though I get 90% of what I want I  am not happy and am not satisfied. I was so frustrated, so that is when I decided to spend some time for myself to have a look on this problem surprisingly I found the solution too early so I thought...

      Hi all, its been a while since my last blog has been published. I was bit stuck between figuring out the best way to get rid of all the mental chaos. Getting back to the topic as i said never forgive people that is the worst way you could react according to me. You have two options to handle the situations.  One is you can react at that time, you can shout, be angry and do whatever you want. To be very honest, you wont  regret at the end. But for sure, your mind has to spend most of your time to tackle the consequences (This is a biggest piece of advise given by my mom). Once in your lifetime, you will regret the time spent to handle the people who wasn't worth your time. The fight and the wrath of those arguments are gonna last forever. Nobody is going to gain anything out of it. Its more like the bomb dropped in hiroshima and nagasakhi, only the consequences lasts forever. This affects your mental health and sometimes physical health too. The another way...