Attitude Decoded

 Hi everyone, hope everyone is happy and healthy. After a short break I am here with yet another blog. This blog is quite special because it took a lot of time for self realization and understanding of the concept. During my teenage many of my buddies started terming themselves as an attitude person, according to them attitude is all about being rude and arrogant. Later did I realize that attitude has nothing to do with arrogance.

As I have mentioned earlier the word attitude starting with the letter a has no correlation with the word arrogance starting with the same letter a, Instead it correlating with the word approach starting with the letter a. I know this is dragging but just to get clarified i started approaching it from vocabulary section.

It is clear that attitude is all about how we approach things, to make it brief it is all about how we behave, how we approach, how we handle situations. But nowadays people are thinking attitude is all about being superior and they act accordingly with the rage of dominating others and treating them disrespectfully. 

Let me give you an example, one of my buddy always used to dominate others by taking the opposite side of a discussion no matter how far her stand was from reality, she calls herself the most attitude person in the room. I personally feel that this act was all about attention seeking, so what I used to do was not to argue which saved most of my time and energy. Even without arguing with her people used to praise me for my intellectual skills. Being arrogant, dominant or treating people disrespectfully has nothing to do with leading a great life. Clever people might think of attaining superiority amongst the people around them but smart people will always think of attaining superiority within themselves.

Everyone is gifted with roses, but the way we consume it is where attitude lies. If you see the thorns rather than the roses you feel stressed, instead if you see the roses ignoring the thorns you feel blessed. That's where gratitude lies. Be thankful for the people around you instead of wasting your time in a fake reality which you have created and termed as "attitude". Always practice gratitude which is also a category of attitude. 

I know this blog might be little boring than my previous ones, since I am stuck with some work i couldn't find time to draft one, will surely come up with some exciting blogs. 

Happy reading......do leave your comments on the comments section below.

 


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