Are we really aware of what we really want?

Hey folks, wishing y'all a very happy and safe DIWALI! Starting this blog with the hope that this blog elucidates our perspective towards ourselves about what we really need and what we really want. I know its been a long time since I have posted my last blog. When I was thinking why am I not consistent, suddenly I discovered that I was going through a identity crisis. So I thought of writing a blog about this which most of us are going through and some may have undergone earlier.

I remember during my childhood I was  so adamant to get things done and used to make sure that I get what I wanted right from my academics to my extra curriculum, and when it comes to toys I used to get some of it but not all still I was happy and satisfied but now even though I get 90% of what I want I  am not happy and am not satisfied. I was so frustrated, so that is when I decided to spend some time for myself to have a look on this problem surprisingly I found the solution too early so I thought of sharing it with you.

 The issue was nothing but I didn't do what I wanted instead I was doing something that my surrounding wanted, I was inspired to do something but ended up doing something which I was just influenced. Right from hanging out for a vacation to spending my me time, everything was being swallowed by some random stuffs. For instance I used to spend my me time by painting, reading books but nowadays I just end up scrolling reels which I am not even interested to be very honest. I am  a person who adores sunset just by sitting in the terrace but nowadays before i admire those scenic view, the first thing I do is take some snaps and dissatisfied with the outcomes take some more snaps and again not satisfied when I am about to click the button the view vanishes and there underlies, untold stressful situation.

In childhood days,  me and neighborhood friends used to celebrate Diwali with utmost fun and joy we weren't destined to make it as a memory for future ,we didn't wish each other but still our Diwali was indeed a great festival to cherish forever we had insane memories, we dint take snaps with pout to make it look crazy. But nowadays before celebrating the festival the first thing we all do is, sending messages in which half a day goes and another half a day goes in planning what kinda status to be posted right from ootd till bursting crackers just for videos. I personally think that happy is changing into a word with spellings rather than an emotion.

Nowadays everybody has food cravings by seeing a video and get hungry feeling not because we feel like eating but by watching a random guy eating something somewhere. There were days when i wanted to go to a restaurant where i liked the food but nowadays I am suppressed to go to a restaurant where many people have visited and shared pics. After all these chaos comes the food which is served hot but cant be consumed hot, here the mandatory thing is to eat food but that isn't. The first and foremost duty is to take snaps and share pics in social media, rather than eating it. 

Starting from spending our weekend till eating foods and wearing clothes everything is being influenced by social media. Even the wishes which we post on father's day and mother's day are we really showing that much love and affection to our family?

                                 The pressure is real but the emotions aren't! 

Whether we are happy are sad we are being coerced to take snaps and maintain streaks which is of no use. Then comes this contents where we end up getting angry on a person for doing cringe things who we don't even  know at the end of the day he gains(getting paid) but our energy drains. So at least from today lets be sensible and aware of what we really want. Lets spend time in the real world than in the reel one.

To conclude with, Before cherishing the moments at present we all run behind creating photographic memories. So at least from today, let's be sensible and aware of what we really want.

 Spend time in the real world than in the reel one.

Happy reading!

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