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 Hey Guys, hope you are all doing good! With the hope that you will be great after reading this insight of mine that i am gonna share with you in this blog. Before getting into the topic, Lemme ask you a question when was the last time you spent a good quality time with yourself ? that doesn't mean going on  a solo trip or solo date, it can just be spending without anything and anyone around you. This blog is going to deal with the context of how well are we aware of ourselves. Lemme ask you another question, Imagine the situation when you were desperately longing for a person to console you or pacify and you started thinking that as a problem without dealing with the actual problem? many of us would have done this, to be very honest I used to do that (but definitely not nowadays :) ). Grateful for the universe that I overcame that toxic habit. First and foremost believe you are the one who is solely responsible for how you are dealing with situations, irrespective of the natu...

Right from childhood to adulthood, men as always been framed to fit into a structure where they are advised from not to cry, not to show themselves weak, to lift all the heavy weights, till being capable of earning pennies to their family. I feel they are always pushed into a unrecognized and not much appreciated zone.    For most of the girls whatever they have cooked for the first time they would have got appreciated, but have you ever heard a boy being appreciated for the first penny earned? May be one in hundred or thousands would have got appreciated. Men have always been trained not to show their sad faces and always be stubborn in nature. He is always tend to be the face of the family even if he doesn't like that. We have heard many stories like father or brother going to work in abroad just to raise the financial status of their families. They have always been pressured to be the providers of the family. Dowry is always been a burden for women's and their family. We al...

Since so many days i was just thinking that i am not influenced by some social media influencers, just because i don't like their attitude and content, but forgot that commenting and discussing about them with my groups, and again watching their content is also an addiction! Have you ever hated some social media content creators for their cringe contents and still visit their profiles? This happened for me many a time, if your answer is yes don't worry i am here with a solution. The only solution is to ask yourself "whatever the cringe content maybe, they are minding their own business, am I?" this question was a slipper shot for myself and from that day(a week ago) i stopped surfing other's accounts. Apart from this, there is a serious issue whether we are financially stable or not some people just want to replicate themselves with the attire they see in online. This is a very serious issue, i am not complaining that we shouldn't buy those items which so call...

Hey folks, wishing y'all a very happy and safe DIWALI! Starting this blog with the hope that this blog elucidates our perspective towards ourselves about what we really need and what we really want. I know its been a long time since I have posted my last blog. When I was thinking why am I not consistent, suddenly I discovered that I was going through a identity crisis. So I thought of writing a blog about this which most of us are going through and some may have undergone earlier. I remember during my childhood I was  so adamant to get things done and used to make sure that I get what I wanted right from my academics to my extra curriculum, and when it comes to toys I used to get some of it but not all still I was happy and satisfied but now even though I get 90% of what I want I  am not happy and am not satisfied. I was so frustrated, so that is when I decided to spend some time for myself to have a look on this problem surprisingly I found the solution too early so I thought...

      Hi all, its been a while since my last blog has been published. I was bit stuck between figuring out the best way to get rid of all the mental chaos. Getting back to the topic as i said never forgive people that is the worst way you could react according to me. You have two options to handle the situations.  One is you can react at that time, you can shout, be angry and do whatever you want. To be very honest, you wont  regret at the end. But for sure, your mind has to spend most of your time to tackle the consequences (This is a biggest piece of advise given by my mom). Once in your lifetime, you will regret the time spent to handle the people who wasn't worth your time. The fight and the wrath of those arguments are gonna last forever. Nobody is going to gain anything out of it. Its more like the bomb dropped in hiroshima and nagasakhi, only the consequences lasts forever. This affects your mental health and sometimes physical health too. The another way...

Hi all, hope everyone is doing pretty well with their lives. This blog is completely filled out with my inner philosophical instinct and more like a gratitude post to the fellow sapiens. Recent days I could see people pouring out too much of hatred towards other people when they are not doing something what they have expected. To be very honest even I was in the same category I used to get pissed off when people do something which I haven't expected them to be. Eventually this will land you in a saddest environment, so don't believe people. Elaborating the above mentioned points, nobody is going to be perfect and no one is gonna wish 100 percent success for you except your blood relation and other few out of the box. In a point of time we will realise that pleasing people is not our job and hating others is a stupid thought. To create inner peace and avoid chaos in mind I started treating my fellow people just like energies, when it comes to energies it is not going to be negat...

Everyone used to say love at first sight is magical, but this is a story of a women who loves me the most even when she didn't know how I looked. Yeah many of you would have guessed it right, my mother. This blog is completely about the women who is responsible for what I am today, who stood by me through my thick and thin, someone who carved me into an idol I would love myself to be. I am really amazed by the way she has uplifted me. When i was depressed for being teased for the way I look (complexion) she made me believe " Talent overpowers racism" .  Whenever life left me with two options of fear ("forget everything and run" or "face everything and raise") she made me to choose the path which raised me in my life. Always i used to wonder people praising me for my character(for being humble even though I had achieved something) and ask my inner self am i really worth it?, besides there was a women who patted me on my shoulder saying "you deserve...

Hi all! Hope everyone is fine. Today i m gonna discuss about a topic which is far beyond my reach(giggling).Many of you can relate with me, we would have started a habit but due to our laziness we would have dropped it off. The only thing that keeps us intact with that routine is our inner motivation and reminding ourself the purpose of that routine in that life. Lemme give you a real time example that's none other than me. There was a time(when i was unemployed) when i used to prepare and attend interviews, preparing myself for government exams(what most engineers do) learn new words to build my vocab and was somewhat consistent with my blogging(I am not sure)and used to read books to feed my inner philosophical thoughts, but now I couldn't do any of these things (after being employed). If you think this is because of not having time you are completely wrong, I do have time but still now my purpose have been shaken a bit may be I have become too lazy by time. So to overcome th...

 First of all Happy new year friends, with the hope that this year brings us all the happiness and goals which we wished for. This year i have promised myself not to take any resolutions, yes you read it right no more resolutions! Instead of resolutions (as the topic states) its going to be promises and plannings. Promising myself a better and healthy lifestyle. This year has drained me both mentally and physically(year mentioned in this sentence is 2021).So all i wanted is a stability in mental health as well as physical as much as possible. With lots of ideas running in my mind i just thought of sharing some of the ideas which sure will work and change our life. Plan your day:                         Planning our day the before night can help us to be well prepared in advance, at the same time it can be backfired too. Yes if you are a person like me who gets stressed all night by wondering the works to be done for the ne...

       Hi all, Its been a long break since last blog sincere apologizes for that, due to some personal commitments I couldn't concentrate more on this part. Hope will post some great contents in the upcoming blogs.           And coming back to the topic, many of us would have gone through the days where we have felt betrayed, brokened, hopeless and much more. So in this blog let's discuss the possibilities to overcome this state and I will be sharing the tricks that worked out for me.           There was a time in my life where I started realizing that some of my surroundings sticked to me just because I was beneficial to them and once I couldn't be the same they shattered. Thanks to those situations that made me realise the true ones. Coming back to the productive part, during those situations my mom made sure that I was engaged with some work to make me realise my self, that's how I started writing blogs. As the tit...