To be that main character vibe of your life

 Hi everyone, hope you all are fine and healthy. I know its been a very very long time since i published my last blog, though i wanted to be consistent in this space but couldn't, will surely share about other things that are revolving around soon! As of now lets jump into this topic. Before getting into this blog I really wanted to ask you this question to understand the different perspective that you guys think of when you read the heading of this topic, please do share that in comments section and thanks in advance for the people who share those in the comments section.

According to me all that it takes to become that main character of your life is just acceptance. I might say just acceptance but getting to that point needs completely different level of maturity and immense validation about yourself and what you want from this society. You might not be happy when you have that acceptance but definitely you will get that peace of mind you always wanted and needed. 

Lets start with the very basic thing that most of us feel bad is about our skin color, to be honest we don't feel bad but people around us will make us feel that way. First you have to accept yourself how you are (definitely not against the usage of makeup to present yourself in an elegant way but using makeup products to fake your skin tone and doing harmful skin treatments isn't okay) and then comes the dressing part I had seen many people being guided in the wrong way, dressing is completely ones own decision. I personally feel getting dressed up very well is an art i used to admire many of my friends its a good thing. You might think then why am i sharing this point. Its just because i happened to come across a reel where a so called influencer just for the sake of content stated that people who don't dress up well are lazy people and they don't feel much confident about themselves. Completely against this point for some the first and foremost priority is to get that comfort in  whatever we wear. Too much of judgements and external validations, never let those to lower your standards. 

And next big thing is not to let social media influence you and feel bad in any way. Social media is a place where most of us wear "happy face" mask with too much internal issues in our day to day life and again not against sharing nice things but the context is not to get influenced by others way of leading life. Consume it so mindfully you tend to experience much of your emotions within seconds which is not good for our mental health. 

Accept the way you are and be happy with what you have, dream more, achieve more but done feel bad for things that you don't have. Definitely you can be that main character in your life.

Be happy! Work hard! Always have Gratitude