To let go of!

Hey folks! Hope everyone is safe and happy. If you are really glad about your current situation please don't read beyond this because when I started writing this blog, even I was unsure what sort of mood will this context would set. I personally feel this topic is quite sensitive. From the start I wanted to share this but couldn't. I think this is the right time to talk about this, my personal motto while writing any kind of blog is to set the person in the same mood that I write(usually a pleasant one) but right now I am perplexed and have no idea how our moods will end up.

I personally feel that thinking about a person or situation from the past is useless and waste of time but though we are reluctant we can't get over it. It might be a relationship, friendship or your favorite member with no tag line. No matter what phase of life we are in, we have to deal with people and be  committed to let go of them, that doesn't mean you have to push people out of your life. You have to be smart enough to handle their empty space. There are many ways to work out but i feel this is the only way that worked out for me when I was left out with no friends during a phase of my life.

The real phase is not dealing with the person who left you but it is all about how you are dealing with yourself. According to me the very worst enemy is your heart. Yeah it is the biggest drama queen which always stages a drama where you will be given the sufferer's role (victim). But trust me if you put up your brain and realize to stand for yourself, you will become a warrior. To be more precise,

       " Shut your Heart, Open your brain! "

Situations are so tedious to handle, it just grants us to blame us or the people in the other side. Either ways its going to worsen the situations and burden your thoughts. Instead of blame game, try to place  yourself as a third person and try giving counselling to yourself. You need not forgive the person but forget them relying in the past is not going to help you. Remember one thing "Though water is pure, if it is stagnant it is going to get dirty". 

The best way to overcome this is to be mindful with yourself and your surroundings. Be your own buddy work on your strength and weakness. Convert your ego into strength and build your career you will be thankful enough later. There is always a bad situation followed by a good situation even if it isn't create one. Be grateful for the people and things you have.

Before I conclude I want to share one thing,

                 "It's hard to forget, but it will become harder if  you didn't"

Save yourself, build yourself stronger than your sympathies. Happy reading!, if you want part-2 do leave in the comments section.