Comparisons can be good too

                                 

I am sure many of you while reading this title would have felt annoyed while seeing the word comparison, trust me you won’t feel the same at the end of this blog.

 Many of us from 90’s would have faced alot of comparisons from our childhood. The process of comparison first starts from our school grades by our parents which knowingly or unknowingly develops some enemity towards our fellow students, the next major comparison that happens in life is regarding the profession we choose, then it eventually develops to further aspects till our destiny. Once our tolerance level for comparisons is done we will come to the conclusion that we are all better in our own ways. There lies the secrecy of the best minds and that’s what this blog is trying to convey.

Have you ever wondered of comparing yourself with you…..wait isnt this sound wierd, trust me not at all. When you compare a good day with a bad day many of us would have tried that too, it would make us feel relieved that we have faced alot to enjoy this happiness which even boosts our happiness a little bit more. Always compare your current performance with your previous performance which will lead to self analysis on the other hand it will not develop any enemity or jealousy.

I have discovered this out of my own experience but not through self realization. When I was totally mad about my life and don’t know what to do I had an interview where I had to discuss about my tough situation which I had faced in my life and when I started to open up, the session was much like an eye opening where i eventually came to the conclusion that the problems which I am facing now are not even 50 percentage of the previous one when compared. That was the time when I gained some realization about the better side of comparison, that was the moment when I realized myself credits goes to the interviewer.

Apart from sharing my experience let me even break it even more simple by adding an example that will satisfy all my general audience and hope will add some advantage to justify this topic. Consider that you are ill, when you are in the stage of recovery doctor will examine your health condition and will say that your health is improving only by comparing your current health condition with previous health condition so from this we can come to the conclusion that improvement happens only when you compare you with only you. This what made me to choose this topic that “Comparisons can be good too“.

This is my first blog hope you have enjoyed this please forgive my flaws if you have happened to find any. Do leave your comments which will be helpful to improve myself.

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