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Are we really aware of what we really want?

Hey folks, wishing y'all a very happy and safe DIWALI! Starting this blog with the hope that this blog elucidates our perspective towards ourselves about what we really need and what we really want. I know its been a long time since I have posted my last blog. When I was thinking why am I not consistent, suddenly I discovered that I was going through a identity crisis. So I thought of writing a blog about this which most of us are going through and some may have undergone earlier. I remember during my childhood I was  so adamant to get things done and used to make sure that I get what I wanted right from my academics to my extra curriculum, and when it comes to toys I used to get some of it but not all still I was happy and satisfied but now even though I get 90% of what I want I  am not happy and am not satisfied. I was so frustrated, so that is when I decided to spend some time for myself to have a look on this problem surprisingly I found the solution too early so I thought...

Never Forgive!

      Hi all, its been a while since my last blog has been published. I was bit stuck between figuring out the best way to get rid of all the mental chaos. Getting back to the topic as i said never forgive people that is the worst way you could react according to me. You have two options to handle the situations.  One is you can react at that time, you can shout, be angry and do whatever you want. To be very honest, you wont  regret at the end. But for sure, your mind has to spend most of your time to tackle the consequences (This is a biggest piece of advise given by my mom). Once in your lifetime, you will regret the time spent to handle the people who wasn't worth your time. The fight and the wrath of those arguments are gonna last forever. Nobody is going to gain anything out of it. Its more like the bomb dropped in hiroshima and nagasakhi, only the consequences lasts forever. This affects your mental health and sometimes physical health too. The another way...

To protect your Inner peace!

Hi all, hope everyone is doing pretty well with their lives. This blog is completely filled out with my inner philosophical instinct and more like a gratitude post to the fellow sapiens. Recent days I could see people pouring out too much of hatred towards other people when they are not doing something what they have expected. To be very honest even I was in the same category I used to get pissed off when people do something which I haven't expected them to be. Eventually this will land you in a saddest environment, so don't believe people. Elaborating the above mentioned points, nobody is going to be perfect and no one is gonna wish 100 percent success for you except your blood relation and other few out of the box. In a point of time we will realise that pleasing people is not our job and hating others is a stupid thought. To create inner peace and avoid chaos in mind I started treating my fellow people just like energies, when it comes to energies it is not going to be negat...

To the women who loves me the most!

Everyone used to say love at first sight is magical, but this is a story of a women who loves me the most even when she didn't know how I looked. Yeah many of you would have guessed it right, my mother. This blog is completely about the women who is responsible for what I am today, who stood by me through my thick and thin, someone who carved me into an idol I would love myself to be. I am really amazed by the way she has uplifted me. When i was depressed for being teased for the way I look (complexion) she made me believe " Talent overpowers racism" .  Whenever life left me with two options of fear ("forget everything and run" or "face everything and raise") she made me to choose the path which raised me in my life. Always i used to wonder people praising me for my character(for being humble even though I had achieved something) and ask my inner self am i really worth it?, besides there was a women who patted me on my shoulder saying "you deserve...

Consistency Matters

Hi all! Hope everyone is fine. Today i m gonna discuss about a topic which is far beyond my reach(giggling).Many of you can relate with me, we would have started a habit but due to our laziness we would have dropped it off. The only thing that keeps us intact with that routine is our inner motivation and reminding ourself the purpose of that routine in that life. Lemme give you a real time example that's none other than me. There was a time(when i was unemployed) when i used to prepare and attend interviews, preparing myself for government exams(what most engineers do) learn new words to build my vocab and was somewhat consistent with my blogging(I am not sure)and used to read books to feed my inner philosophical thoughts, but now I couldn't do any of these things (after being employed). If you think this is because of not having time you are completely wrong, I do have time but still now my purpose have been shaken a bit may be I have become too lazy by time. So to overcome th...

Instead of Resolutions.......

 First of all Happy new year friends, with the hope that this year brings us all the happiness and goals which we wished for. This year i have promised myself not to take any resolutions, yes you read it right no more resolutions! Instead of resolutions (as the topic states) its going to be promises and plannings. Promising myself a better and healthy lifestyle. This year has drained me both mentally and physically(year mentioned in this sentence is 2021).So all i wanted is a stability in mental health as well as physical as much as possible. With lots of ideas running in my mind i just thought of sharing some of the ideas which sure will work and change our life. Plan your day:                         Planning our day the before night can help us to be well prepared in advance, at the same time it can be backfired too. Yes if you are a person like me who gets stressed all night by wondering the works to be done for the ne...

Baby Steps Matters!

       Hi all, Its been a long break since last blog sincere apologizes for that, due to some personal commitments I couldn't concentrate more on this part. Hope will post some great contents in the upcoming blogs.           And coming back to the topic, many of us would have gone through the days where we have felt betrayed, brokened, hopeless and much more. So in this blog let's discuss the possibilities to overcome this state and I will be sharing the tricks that worked out for me.           There was a time in my life where I started realizing that some of my surroundings sticked to me just because I was beneficial to them and once I couldn't be the same they shattered. Thanks to those situations that made me realise the true ones. Coming back to the productive part, during those situations my mom made sure that I was engaged with some work to make me realise my self, that's how I started writing blogs. As the tit...

The Power of Recreation

 If you are going through the worst phase of your life, hope this will help us to get back to the form which we have lost. Yes, you read it right it's us I am going through some kinda worser phase not worst one I guess perhaps it can be my worst too! (As my readers know that I ll always narrate everything from my point of life which will be helpful for others who match my vibes at this point of time. Hope this turns out to be a life changing stuff for others too).              " Make sure your set back is always                     For a greater comeback"                   To recreate yourself you need a set back (may be some kinda burnout session), if you can't afford a day, spend some hours, analyze your feelings, write down your thoughts. Sometimes the motivation you need is deeper inside your thoughts, Dig deeper,realize your strength! ...

The second important P in our life

And it's been a really long time since I posted my last blog, which was just because I did not have that another P in my life. Some of you would have guessed it by now, it's noneother than planning.  " Never begin a day without finishing it in a paper"      The most in this blog comes out from my own experience. The more you plan, the more you utilise your time. By the way planning doesn't mean just planning to work tirelessly, it even holds some time to just relax and have fun.             "Idle mind is a devil's workshop"       If you aren't aware of what you are doing or what you are going to do, definitely you are gonna end up being lazy or else stressed. As I have already mentioned planning doesn't mean having a schedule assisting your profession or academics it's merely about staying focused which eventually leads to a healthy (both mentally and physically) lifestyle.           "An hour ...

Love Redefined

Yes, since today is valentine's day the most mandatory topic to be discussed is this. First of all I would like to apologise if this blog hurts your behaviour or feelings, everybody has their own opinions and this blog reflects mine.                 Nowadays I could witness people celebrating almost 14 days with different names for each day, just to acknowledge that February 14 is going to arrive or else arrived. According to me the main essential characteristic of love is sacrifice but I was literally shocked that I couldn't see a day for sacrifice.                Love is all about sacrifice. Sacrifice is the best thing one could do for their loved ones, genuine way of expressing true love. Love is all about believing someone even though when they have nothing. With all these qualities I could genuinely categorize two souls who will love you with all their heart, many of you would have probably guessed it b...